Relationship problems :(
Dear Fluffy,
I have been in a friendship for a long time. But lately it seem like shes avoiding me. Ever since she started to hang out with other people. I would be walking towards her and she would just turn away. I think she has seen me when that has happened. What should i do should I still talk to her or should I do the same thing she is doing?-anonymous
Dear anonymous
This is a very tough situation. Especially if your friends' friends don't really like you. If I were in your shoes I would get talk to her in private an let her know how you feel. But, DONT make her choose between you or her new friends because chances are that she will be confused and you will make her feel pressured. If she doesn't understand you and ignores you after that then reconsider your friendship. Because if she doesn't talk to you when shes with her other friends then she isn't a very good friend.
Too much school work!
Dear Fluffy,
I am a hard working student always gets my work done. Or used to. Lately i have had a hard time concentrating. I get distracted with every little thing. I got lazy. What are some ways that I can do my work without getting distracted? -K.D.
Dear K.D.,
I know exactly how you feel. First focus! The best thing to do if you have homework that was given to you in class and you have some spare time instead of just sitting around get started on it. When you leave class you will be about half way done with it. You can probably even finish it! Another tip is if you have an assignment start it the day it was assigned to you do a part of it each day and by the due date you will have it finished. Don't wait for the last minute to do it. Because we all know how that goes!
Dear Fluffy,
I am friends with a guy that hates himself. He calls me every day. most of the time he is on drugs or drunk. He is a very cool guy. Me and my friend talk to him a lot. He is always getting into trouble. With the police, school and his family. It worries me that every time he calls me he starts talking about dieing. He repeats it and repeats it. It gets me sad. He says that no one cares about him not even me. I'm scared that he might do something stupid. What should i do to help him?-Scared
Dear Scared,
I know how you feel. But all you have to do is give him time. But just make sure that he knows you are there for him. Give him tough love... Yes at first he might be a total butt head...But he will thank you sooner or later... Make sure he's all right... Call him from time to time even though you got nothing to say. Just make sure he know you are there...
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Wednesday, January 30, 2008
Advice from Bubblegum
For someone who doesn't have any time???
Dear Bubblegum,
I am an honors kid and I have sports after school, I have community service and I go to church. I feel like everything is piling up and I feel like if I am losing myself. I feel like my world is crushing down. I have so many things to do that sometimes i just don't know where to start. School is frustrating with all the homework after school activities and just all the friend drama. It's just too much. I know I have to keep up with all my responsibilities but I just feel like screaming my ... head off ! ! ! It's just with all of this stuff I don't have any time for myself!!!! From: Anonymous...
Dear Anonymous,
I know how exactly how you feel. I feel like if the world is spinning and I am just in one place. I know that this will sound weird but doing a schedule will help a lot. i know it sounds cheesy but it works... You might not be able to do everything and save the world but in every schedule have something for you. Like me i like to sit in my room and just chilax and listen to music. my kind of music and just get lost in it, dance around like crazy.
" Remember be yourself " Sincerely, Bubblegum
Dear Bubblegum
I am a simple kind of girl who has a super Gorgeous friend, and well I'm NOT. She is the type that everybody is intimidated by. I am not intimidated but it's just that having a friend like that can be a pretty big downer. people say that I look pretty but that's not what I see in the mirror. Why am I so sad?? I feel like my self esteem is going all the way down... what should I do??? I just feel like if I am not the way I used to be. I never really cared about looks but people look at her differently than how they look at me. But why do I feel so bad?? I feel like I am just not good enough. I'm not as pretty and as girly as other girls,I don't brag about make-up. I am just a GIRL... That sometimes doesn't have a voice....From Anonymous
Dear Anonymous,
I know what it feels like to be in some body's shadow just know that nobody is perfect. I know that this might not help as much but just be your self you'd be surprised on how much people think that you are such a cool person....People have things that are just not perfect. It might be hard to realize but don't wast your time on feeling depressed, it isn't worth it. I don't know if you saw the T.V Show La Fea mas Bella or Ugly Betty but all that matters is your personality....There might be people that judge you by your looks but those people are just empty inside. Have you ever seen "The Beauty And The Geek" All of those girls relied on there look ONLY. But later they actually can get there and all of the geeks were able to turn a little bit cute but they got there. Just remember keep going with life. There is good in life all you have to do is keep going and don't look for the luck..it will come to you." Keep Reachin For The Starz " Sincerely, Bubblegum
Dear Bubblegum,
My parents hit me, and it is not one of those hits that you can hardly feel. I feel like if I am alone in the world. I have three brothers. One is older than me and I have two smaller brothers. The older one is only three years older than me, and my smaller sisters are between 12 and 4. I am 13 yrs old. Anyways , my parents are very violent. I have thought of suicide but I don't really have the guts to do it. I also have thought of runaway. That was it... I ran away.. I thought of the whole thing. I will spend the night at my friends house and then go to my teachers house. I know what your thinking what teacher would do that?? But me and her are very close... After I will go see my boyfriend and then go back to my teachers house...It was the smartest plan, well I thought it was. So it was getting dark and suddenly we hear a loud knock. It was only me and my friend alone so we thought her parents got home, but they had the key so who was at the door??? It was one of my friends, I let out a huge sigh. But then my mom and my aunt walked in....Later just about five minutes my friends mom got home...Her mom slapped her really bad...Suddenly my cousin walks in with my 2 brothers. The smallest was at home with my dad. My cousin just came up to me and hugged my so tight, and the thing is she started crying...( My cousin is the same age as me) We got home, and my parents and aunt started talking to me. Later they called the COPS, and told them that they found me. I slept over at my cousins house and she told me that my parents and everybody missed me so bad...But I don't believe her... I think that I am just a sad waste in this land... What difference do I make???From Anonymous...
Dear Anonymous,
I know how it feels to be invisible sometimes, and probably always. But there are people around you that care, all you have to do is open your eyes. For right now you might even seem blind. Example, your cousin cares!!! Do you think that your family don't care then why would they go around looking for you. If you are being abused don't be afraid to reach for help. Talk to hot lines anybody just SPEAK UP!!! People care all you have to do is open your eyes,reach for help, and Speak Up ! ! ! "Forget about the people in your past, there is a reason they didn't make it to your future" Sincerely Bubblegum
Dear Bubblegum,
I am an honors kid and I have sports after school, I have community service and I go to church. I feel like everything is piling up and I feel like if I am losing myself. I feel like my world is crushing down. I have so many things to do that sometimes i just don't know where to start. School is frustrating with all the homework after school activities and just all the friend drama. It's just too much. I know I have to keep up with all my responsibilities but I just feel like screaming my ... head off ! ! ! It's just with all of this stuff I don't have any time for myself!!!! From: Anonymous...
Dear Anonymous,
I know how exactly how you feel. I feel like if the world is spinning and I am just in one place. I know that this will sound weird but doing a schedule will help a lot. i know it sounds cheesy but it works... You might not be able to do everything and save the world but in every schedule have something for you. Like me i like to sit in my room and just chilax and listen to music. my kind of music and just get lost in it, dance around like crazy.
" Remember be yourself " Sincerely, Bubblegum
Dear Bubblegum
I am a simple kind of girl who has a super Gorgeous friend, and well I'm NOT. She is the type that everybody is intimidated by. I am not intimidated but it's just that having a friend like that can be a pretty big downer. people say that I look pretty but that's not what I see in the mirror. Why am I so sad?? I feel like my self esteem is going all the way down... what should I do??? I just feel like if I am not the way I used to be. I never really cared about looks but people look at her differently than how they look at me. But why do I feel so bad?? I feel like I am just not good enough. I'm not as pretty and as girly as other girls,I don't brag about make-up. I am just a GIRL... That sometimes doesn't have a voice....From Anonymous
Dear Anonymous,
I know what it feels like to be in some body's shadow just know that nobody is perfect. I know that this might not help as much but just be your self you'd be surprised on how much people think that you are such a cool person....People have things that are just not perfect. It might be hard to realize but don't wast your time on feeling depressed, it isn't worth it. I don't know if you saw the T.V Show La Fea mas Bella or Ugly Betty but all that matters is your personality....There might be people that judge you by your looks but those people are just empty inside. Have you ever seen "The Beauty And The Geek" All of those girls relied on there look ONLY. But later they actually can get there and all of the geeks were able to turn a little bit cute but they got there. Just remember keep going with life. There is good in life all you have to do is keep going and don't look for the luck..it will come to you." Keep Reachin For The Starz " Sincerely, Bubblegum
Dear Bubblegum,
My parents hit me, and it is not one of those hits that you can hardly feel. I feel like if I am alone in the world. I have three brothers. One is older than me and I have two smaller brothers. The older one is only three years older than me, and my smaller sisters are between 12 and 4. I am 13 yrs old. Anyways , my parents are very violent. I have thought of suicide but I don't really have the guts to do it. I also have thought of runaway. That was it... I ran away.. I thought of the whole thing. I will spend the night at my friends house and then go to my teachers house. I know what your thinking what teacher would do that?? But me and her are very close... After I will go see my boyfriend and then go back to my teachers house...It was the smartest plan, well I thought it was. So it was getting dark and suddenly we hear a loud knock. It was only me and my friend alone so we thought her parents got home, but they had the key so who was at the door??? It was one of my friends, I let out a huge sigh. But then my mom and my aunt walked in....Later just about five minutes my friends mom got home...Her mom slapped her really bad...Suddenly my cousin walks in with my 2 brothers. The smallest was at home with my dad. My cousin just came up to me and hugged my so tight, and the thing is she started crying...( My cousin is the same age as me) We got home, and my parents and aunt started talking to me. Later they called the COPS, and told them that they found me. I slept over at my cousins house and she told me that my parents and everybody missed me so bad...But I don't believe her... I think that I am just a sad waste in this land... What difference do I make???From Anonymous...
Dear Anonymous,
I know how it feels to be invisible sometimes, and probably always. But there are people around you that care, all you have to do is open your eyes. For right now you might even seem blind. Example, your cousin cares!!! Do you think that your family don't care then why would they go around looking for you. If you are being abused don't be afraid to reach for help. Talk to hot lines anybody just SPEAK UP!!! People care all you have to do is open your eyes,reach for help, and Speak Up ! ! ! "Forget about the people in your past, there is a reason they didn't make it to your future" Sincerely Bubblegum
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